The Fatherliness Of God
By Andrew Murray
“Or what man is there of you, who, if his son ask him for a loaf, will give him a stone; or if he shall ask for a fish, will give him a serpent! If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask Him!” (Matt. 7:9-11).
In these words our Lord proceeds further to confirm what He had said of the certainty of an answer to prayer. To remove all doubt, and show us on what ground His promise rests, He appeals to what everyone has seen and experienced here on earth. We are all children, and know what we expected of our fathers. We are fathers or continually see them, and everywhere we look upon it as the most natural thing there can be for a father to hear his child.
The Lord asks us to look up from earthly parents, of whom the best are but evil, and to calculate how much more the heavenly Father will give good gifts to them that ask Him. Jesus would lead us to see that as much greater as God is than sinful man, so much greater our assurance ought to be that He will more surely than any earthly father grant our childlike petitions. As much greater as God is than man, so much surer is it that prayer will be heard with the Father in heaven than with a father on earth. As simple and intelligible as this parable is, so deep and spiritual is the teaching it contains. The Lord would remind us that the prayer of a child owes its influence entirely to the relation in which he stands to the parent. The prayer can exert that influence only when the child is really living in that relationship, in the home, in the love, in the service of the Father.
The power of the promise, “Ask, and it shall be given you,” lies in the loving relationship between us as children and the Father in heaven. When we live and walk in that relationship, the prayer of faith and its answer will be the natural result. The lesson we have today in the school of prayer is this: Live as a child of God, then you will be able to pray as a child, and as a child you will most assuredly be heard.
What Is the Child-life?
The answer can be found in any home. The child that by preference forsakes the father’s house, that finds no pleasure in the presence and love and obedience of the father, and still thinks to ask and obtain what he will, will surely be disappointed. On the contrary, he to whom the intercourse and will and honor and love of the father are the joy of his life, will find that it is the father’s joy to grant his requests.
Scripture says, “As many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the children of God” (Rom. 8:14). The childlike privilege of asking all is inseparable from the childlike life under the leading of the Spirit. He that gives himself to be led by the Spirit in his life will be led by Him in his prayers too. He will find that fatherlike giving is the divine response to childlike living.
To see what this childlike living is in which childlike asking and believing have their ground, we have only to notice what our Lord teaches in the Sermon on the Mount of the Father and His children. In it the prayer promises are imbedded in the life precepts. The two are inseparable. They form one whole. He alone can count on the fulfillment of the promise, who accepts too all that the Lord has connected with it.
It is as if in speaking the word, “Ask and ye shall receive,” He says, I give these promises to those whom in the beatitudes I have pictured in their childlike poverty and purity and of whom I have said, “They shall be called the children of God” (Matt. 5:3-9), to children who “let your light shine before men, so that they may glorify your Father in heaven,” to those who walk in love, “that ye may be children of your Father which is in heaven,” and who seek to be perfect “even as your Father in heaven is perfect” (5:16, 45, 48); to those whose fasting and praying and almsgiving (6:1-18) is not before men, but “before your Father which seeth in secret”; who forgive “even as your Father forgiveth you” (6:15), who trust the heavenly Father in all earthly need, seeking first the kingdom of God and His righteousness (6:26-33), who not only say, Lord, Lord, but do the will of My Father which is in heaven (7:21).
Such are the children of the Father and such is the life in the Father’s love and service. In such a child-life answered prayers are certain and abundant.
But will not such teaching discourage the feeble one? If we are first to answer to this portrait of a child, must not many give up all hope of answers to prayer? The difficulty is removed if we think again of the blessed name of the father and child. A child is weak. There is a great difference among children in age and gift. The Lord does not demand of us a perfect fulfillment of the law; no, but only the childlike and wholehearted surrender to live as a child with Him in obedience and truth. Nothing more, but also, nothing less.
The Father must have the whole heart. When this is given, and He sees the child with honest purpose and steady will seeking in everything to be and live as a child, then our prayer will count with Him as the prayer of a child. Let anyone simply and honestly begin to study the Sermon on the Mount and take it as his guide in life, and he will find, notwithstanding weakness and failure, an ever-growing liberty to claim the fulfillment of its promises in regard to prayer. In the names of the father and child he has the pledge that his petitions will be granted.
This is the one chief thought on which Jesus dwells here and which He would have all His scholars take in. He would have us see that the secret of effectual prayer is to have the heart filled with the Father-love of God. It is not enough for us to know that God is a Father. He would have us take time to come under the full impression of what the name implies.
We must take the best earthly father we know. We must think of the tenderness and love with which he regards the request of his child, the love and joy with which he grants every reasonable desire. We must then, as we think in adoring and worship of the infinite love and fatherliness of God, consider with how much more tenderness and joy He sees us come to Him, and gives us what we ask aright.
When we see how much this divine arithmetic is beyond our comprehension and feel how impossible it is for us to apprehend God’s readiness to hear us, then He would have us come and open our heart for the Holy Spirit to shed abroad God’s Father-love there. Let us do this not only when we want to pray, but let us yield heart and life to dwell in that love.
The child, who only wants to know the love of the father when he has something to ask, will be disappointed. But he who lets God be Father always and in everything, who would fain live his whole life in the Father’s presence and love, who allows God in all the greatness of His love to be a Father to him, oh! he will experience most gloriously that a life in God’s infinite fatherliness and continual answers to prayer are inseparable.
Beloved fellow disciple, we begin to see what the reason is that we know so little of daily answers to prayer, and what the chief lesson is which the Lord has for us in His school. It is all in the name of Father. We thought of new and deeper insight into some of the mysteries of the prayer-world as what we should get in Christ’s school. He tells us the first is the highest lesson: we must learn to say well, “Abba, Father!”
“Our Father who is in heaven.” He that can say this has the key to all prayer. In all the compassion with which a father listens to his weak or sickly child, in all the joy with which he hears his stammering child, in all the gentle patience with which he bears with a thoughtless child, we must, as in so many mirrors, study the heart of our Father until every prayer be borne upward on the faith of this divine word, “How much more shall your Heavenly Father give good gifts to them that ask Him.”
Blessed Lord! Thou knowest that this, though it be one of the first and simplest and most glorious lessons in Thy school, is to our hearts one of the hardest to learn: we know so little of the love of the Father, Lord, teach us so to live with the Father that His love may be to us nearer, clearer, dearer, than the love of any earthly father. Let the assurances of His hearing our prayer be as much greater than the confidence in an earthly parent, as the heavens are higher than the earth, as God is infinitely greater than man.
Lord, show us that it is only our unchildlike distance from the Father that hinders the answer to prayer, and lead us on the true life of God’s children. Lord Jesus, it is fatherlike love that wakens childlike trust. O reveal to us the Father and His tender, pitying love, that we may become childlike, and experience how in the child-life lies the power of prayer.
Blessed Son of God, the Father loves You and has given You all things. You love the Father, and have done all things He commanded You, and therefore have the power to ask all things. Lord, give us Your own Spirit, the Spirit of the Son. Make us childlike as You were on earth. Let every prayer be breathed in the faith that as the heaven is higher than the earth, so God’s Father-love and His readiness to give us what we ask, surpasses all we can think or conceive. Amen.
– Taken from Learning To Pray (With Christ In The School Of Prayer) by Andrew Murray.